Building Your Self-Confidence And Ensuring Your Children Are Confident Too



In Family Psychology | |

There are many things that can get in the way of your confidence. Both men and women can struggle with finding self-confidence. And, if you have children, your confidence or lack of confidence can affect how they see themselves as well.

That is one of the reasons it is important to make sure that you do what you can to be comfortable in your own skin. From issues with childhood acne to what having babies does to a woman’s body, there are many things that can make you feel less comfortable in your skin. Here are some things that can help you build your self-esteem.

Find Something You Like About Yourself And Focus On It

Start your transformation into a more self-confident person by finding at least one thing you like about yourself and then focus on that one thing. The more you like that one thing, the more things about yourself you’ll find that you like. It’s kind of like the domino effect.

Everyone has at least one thing they like, and it doesn’t even have to be physical. Maybe you like that you are a creative person or that you easily make new friends. Run with that and let it transform you into a person that can like everything about themselves, or at least learn to accept that everyone has flaws.

Get A Makeover

You could get a makeover, and this is something you can share with your children as well. Go to a spa, get your hair done differently, shop for a new wardrobe that makes you feel beautiful and powerful, and maybe even get a new makeup look. Makeovers can entail almost anything, and even just a new outfit could make a huge difference in your life.

When it comes to kids, of any school age, wardrobe can mean a lot when it comes to confidence and popularity. When it’s time to shop for some new clothes for you take your kids with you and let them pick out something new and in style as well.

Find Something That Makes You Happy

Not only does finding something about yourself that makes you happy work to boost your confidence but so does finding something you like to do help. It could be a hobby, it could be finding the right job, or it could be something you just do on the side, like writing poetry in a notebook.

If you have a hobby that makes you happy and takes your mind off of the things that make you nervous or uncomfortable, use it. Use your art to feel more approachable. Teach your children to embrace their hobbies and to have confidence in their own creative abilities and they too will boost their self-esteem.

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